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The holiday season is my favourite time of the year. First there’s Advent where you build up to the fun decorating the house with a wreath decorated with purple ribbons. Usually I also get an Advent Calendar. But this year is different. Economic recession has hit Europe and it’s tough to make ends meet when self-employed.
Advent has two faces: one of sorrow because Christians believe that Christ was sent to us to suffer and die in our stead, but also of joy, because we look forward to the Second Coming. The Feast of the Nativity of Christ, also known as Christmas, is a bitter-sweet feast. For some reason, the two-sidedness that comes with the season really moved me the other day.
Last week, I read that record numbers of people are seeking professional help getting out of increasingly high debts. More and more people are losing their jobs because bankruptcy numbers are still rising.
It just didn’t feel right to go out for the annual Christmas tree hunt in the third week of Advent. Christmas trees are easily €30 for a simple tree. That’s the tree only, no decorations. And at Epiphany, most people put it at the side of the road to be recycled. I usually try to keep the tree until Candlemas. Usually I toss it out earlier because of the needle shedding and the fact it’s hard to get rid of a christmas tree when you’re alone and don’t drive.
All things considered, I decided I’d do something different, this year. I bought some decorated boxes and colourful ribbons instead of a tree.
In the upcoming days, when I do my Christmas grocery shopping, I will buy some extra luxury things to stuff the boxes with. Then I’ll donate the filled boxes to the cathedral to help families in our parish who face difficult times right now.
In The Netherlands there’s this old tradition where employers would give their employees a box with groceries to prepare for Christmas. Usually it has the extra nice things: chocolate, sausages, cheese, wine. Things that are expensive. I remember when my father would come home after the last working day before Christmas with a big box full of sweets and other delicacies.
But if you don’t have a job, you are home and you won’t get a box like that. What if I make some of these boxes and gift those to my parish so they can give it to these people on the last working day before Christmas? In the upcoming days, I will spend my Christmas budget on luxury items to stuff boxes with and skip the tree and the decorations.
Next year I’ll get an artificial tree on the Third Day of Christmas when secular stores start their post-Christmas sales. Sometimes you’ll be able to get items priced down by 75%. I will still put these nicely decorated gift boxes under my tree, and fill those with groceries to give away.
Merry Christmas to all of you!
Using a small table tree, decorated and given to me by my best friend on the first Christmas I was without parents. Mike and I also donate to others and will take a peek at the new DVDs given to us by his father. Oh, and I think I’ll give Mike a Christmas kiss and maybe a special breakfast 😉 The giving part is my favourite. I wish I could do more. Have a wonderful Christmas, Inge and may 2013 bring you joy and lots of opportunities.